Got a heads up to check out the redesigned MySecret.tv by Life Church here in Edmond. As I clicked around the site, a couple of positive things stood out:
1. Great graphic design.
2. Craig's video on the site is extremely good. Everything I've ever heard from Craig and about Craig leads me to believe firmly that he is a class act and that he loves God and people deeply.
But CLEARLY several 'what are you thinking????' things stood out as well:
1. You can now browse secrets through a tag cloud of sin. 'Sex,' as you might imagine, is the leading tag. With other sex-related tags like 'pornography' and 'affair' running close behind. Is this a good idea?? And yes, the link actually says 'Browse Secrets.' Not 'prayerfully read secrets' (see below), but 'browse.' Like 'browse through Barnes and Noble 'til you find something that catches your interest.'
2. Craig says in the video not to browse the secrets just to pry into other people's lives, but . . . come on . . . do you really think people are coming to the site to prayerfully read these anonymously confessed secrets? Really?
I would LOVE to know what percentage of people come to the site to prayerfully read the secrets.
Putting fairly lurid details in front of people and asking them not to be voyeurs is a bit like putting chocolate in front of my 2 year old and telling him not to eat it while I leave the room for 30 minutes. He may understand that he shouldn't eat, but he's gonna eat it! Way too tempting not to.
3. The best: You can actually subscribe to an RSS feed for each secret, and the link above each feed says--and I am not making this up--'Don't miss a comment.' So if you find a secret you're particularly fond of (or perhaps that you prayerfully read. That's certainly possible.), you can plug it into your RSS reader so you'll be the first to know when someone else comments on it.
4. Weird: If you click on 'Prayer,' you can submit a name and email if you are praying for the people who are confessing on the site, but there is no way to submit a prayer request or directly ask for help.
The only way I could find to actually contact someone through the site if you need help is to click on 'community,' then 'find a life group,' then click on the button that indicates you need help finding a life group.
A little bit of commentary:
1. I very much appreciate Life Church's desire to push the envelope and do crazy stuff. I'm a fan of crazy, but the downside (to which my life is a living testament) is that sometimes you get too crazy. I can't possibly understand how this is anything other than that.
2. If Life Church is really serious about not treating this as a voyeuristic site, but one in which people making these confessions are actually prayed for, they should plaster that sort of language all over the site instead of using language like 'browse secrets' and 'don't miss a comment.'
If you don't watch the video, there's really nothing else on the site that indicates the whole 'prayerfully read these' vibe. Maybe we should intuitively know that, but it's DEFINITELY not a central focus of the site. Just a single mention at the first of the video.
3. I would absolutely love it if someone could give me some arguments as to why doing a site like MySecret.tv is a good idea in spite of the fact that the default way most people will use the site is either to anonymously confess to a computer screen or to read the confessions in a voyeuristic way. Any takers on that?
4. Maybe my commentary says more about me than it does about the site. I certainly hold that out as a possibility. I don't think so, but I could be wrong.